She Has A History Of Cheating; Can You Ever Trust Her?
On The Cooper and Anthony Show, we learned that Sadie has a history of infidelity. She hasn’t been faithful to any guy in her past, except for the guy she’s now with. She says she has no desire to cheat and wants to be faithful, she is faithful and it’s her choice to be. But, how does she convince him? He doesn’t believe her!
Cheating studies say…
The latest research on cheating and behavior changes have three aspects to it
- Your willingness to never do it again
- How self aware you are as to why you did it in the first place
- And if you’re willing to take responsibility for being the one who messed up your previous relationships
And the answer to these questions should all be something you discuss with your current partner. Be open. Be vulnerable, show him this is different by discussing everything about it with him. Once he feels like he’s on the inside of this he won’t feel like he’s on the outside of this
And then, tell him he can trust you and once you’ve done that, tell him if you ever don’t answer a text or get home late and it worries him, tell him he can ask you anything– you have nothing to hide. You can help someone to not feel insecure up to a point, after that it’s on him.
Here’s how to stop a pattern of cheating…
Stopping a pattern of infidelity in relationships can be a difficult task, but it is certainly possible with the right approach and mindset. Here are some steps you can take to help break this pattern:
- Identify the underlying issues: It is essential to understand what is driving your infidelity. Is it boredom, lack of fulfillment, or a need for validation? Identifying the root cause can help you address the problem and find a more positive outlet for your emotions.
- Take responsibility: It’s important to take full responsibility for your actions and the hurt you have caused others. Acknowledge the impact of your behavior and the harm it has caused.
- Seek professional help: Consider seeing a therapist or counselor who specializes in relationships. A professional can help you gain insight into why you engage in infidelity and provide you with tools to break the pattern.
- Be transparent: When entering into a new relationship, be honest about your past behavior and intentions. This can help build trust and create a foundation for a healthy relationship.
- Make a commitment to change: Changing behavior is not easy, but it’s essential to make a commitment to break the pattern of infidelity. This means being willing to make difficult decisions and take steps to avoid situations that may trigger your infidelity.
Remember that change takes time and effort, and it’s important to be patient and kind to yourself throughout the process. With the right approach and commitment, you can break the pattern of infidelity and build healthier relationships in the future. Then time will show your partner you’re serious about them and your commitment to fidelity.
