Where Does A New Cub Meet An Experienced Cougar These Days?
Q: Lucas is attracted to cougars. He asked Dr. Cooper of The Cooper and Anthony Show where he can find older women, specifically late 30s early 40s. And then when he meets them, how does he seduce them? He also was interested in what it was about for them too. Do they like to go in for the kill or is it because he’s fun and youthful and its something they’re missing in their lives since they’re old?
DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT CALL A COUGAR “OLD”
A: You’re not going to meet a cougar with that attitude. Women in their 30s and 40s don’t see themselves as old and they don’t see themselves as missing something in their lives, quite the opposite. They’re totally feeling themselves and want a younger man to mirror the image they have of themselves. Hot! (Not to mention the fact that late 30s early 40s is by no means “old”), but I digress.
WE HAVE A TERM FOR BAD CUBS
So, Lucas, if you want to meet cougars- making them feel old just because they are a few years older than you is going to backfire. In fact, they have a name for cubs like you who are disrespectful. They call them “Red Pillers”, like The Matrix red pill vs. blue pill thing. It’s a derogatory term for cubs who try to shift the power dynamic by being ageist and saying unkind things. So, don’t do that.
WHERE TO MEET COUGARS
That said, you are in luck because there are several terrific cougar dating sites if you want to be obvious about it, there’s CougarLife, or Milf-Finder. But you can also use the more common dating apps Adult Friend Finder, Bumble and POF and just put in the age parameter of the age range you’re looking for. Make sure you say in your profile that you are looking for women older than you. You can use the terms “cub” and “cougar” or it will be obvious if you’re 22 and the age range is 35-45.
HERE’S A HOT TIP
If you want to meet in person, YELP has a “Best place to meet cougars in YOUR city” category. It will take you to hotel bars, upscale restaurants and places where they don’t serve beer in pitchers. Good luck!